Exhortation esp. for we the Youths…
“ LETS FEEL BETTER, NOT BITTER!”
By:- Mr. Thangkhanlal Guite @ Mr.Guite, N.Delhi
At the outset, I was overwhelmed to our Merciful Almighty God for giving me precious time to write this simple exhortation articles in good faith for the development of our Personality and Success in our life; especially for we the Youths’ including myself and colleagues. To make it short let me make my idea pointed. In our pursuit of success, we should not be disheartened in the faces of failures. Failures we must remember is the stepping stones to success, every setback that you receive or faces, every stumbling blocks in our way, every obstacles that we come across eventually pave the way for our success. Lets take all these in the positive way. Let us learnt from our mistakes we had made and tread wearily and cautiously on the path you/we have chosen for goals, ambitions.
Every failures should make you feel better not bitter. Remember the adge that everyman is born to succeed. How you achieve success is what matters in the long run. Let us keep in mind what the father of the Nation Mahatma Ghandhi’s theory of ends and means. He was right, when he said that the means justify the ends. We have to look them properly and the right means to achieve our/your ends. Generally, there are no short-cuts to success(its just for a few genius persons’ only); the road to success may be paved with noble intentions, but the means to realized those noble intentions are equally important.
A personality development expert has rightly said that winners do not do different things; they do things differently. It is the vital “Difference” that stands between you and success. So Let us explore it, visualize it and then realize, so that our success in life will be all the more sweet and cherish able. In order to Success in life, Hard work, Positive Attitude and Discipline are a must. And developed a routine punctual life(Schedule). Not only that lets not forget that this war is a competitive world-cut throat healthy competitive world.
“ Let failures never frustrated us for further attempts at scaling the ladder of success.” Lets have the very good habit of Reading good Books as your habits first(good books should be our best friends), and take reading as a fun and enjoyment don’t take it as a punishment if you really want to shine in life. Climb each rung carefully, and we have to remember all those who have helped you to become what you are in the final analysis. Lets analyzed carefully our failures/weak points and go deep into the root cause that led us to failures and find a way out of it. Once this is done, you will definitely feet Better Not Bitter! anymore. Let us never forget that when we become a men of success or a women of success that it’s a God’s Blessings and keep the Faith satisfy and humble.
See, let me give you one important example, to Buddhist, self-knowledge is the ultimate knowledge. According to them once you know what you are, you will be at peace with your inner self. Meanwhile, this will definitely over come the failures. Not only that we should never be afraid of failures, as the fear of it can completely destroy you. We should enjoy Hard Work and never look upon as a punishment. It is by the sweat of your brows you will earned your bread. No triumph comes without efforts and without overcoming obstacles. Be always committed to your cause. Let us never forget that, Gautama Bhuddha did not achieve Enlightenment in a single day (whoes birth place was Lumbini & died of Dysentery). He had patiently waited for Enlightenment to dawn upon him for such a long years. Lets not forget that the fruit of Patience is always sweet. Perseverance in our pursuit of success, and you will achieve what you have set your sight on. Every little step that we take towards success adds to our/your kitty of Self-Confidence. Enrich this kitty, learnt from your failures; build upon them for a Better Tomorrow. Besides, that let me quote what was the right way to shine in life through the Holy Bible.
In the Holy Bible, in, Hosia 4:6 This Chapter and verse also clearly says that “My peoples are being destroyed for they lack Knowledges. Apart from that Matthew 6:33 says that “ But Seek First The Kingdom of God and His Righteousness, and All These These Things Shall Be Added Unto You”. Thus, from now onwards let us analyzed carefully our failures/weak points and go deep into the root cause that led us to failures and find a way out of it. Once this is done, you will definitely feet Better Not Bitter! Anymore…
With Best Wishes in our strife for Excellence especially in the field of Education; which can Emancipated us from many things in life; illiteracy, poorness, depression, poverties etc.etc…