"If you want to manifest your heart's desires, stop idealizing them. The more you idealize anything, the more you separate yourself from it." Chris Cade
Tam thugiel Pu Chris Cade in bangzieh a sil ibawl ut khat ngaituo senglou ding, ingaituo seng leh idei leh itup tangtunglou ahi achi ata diei chi ka ngaituo chieng in lamdang kasa mama hi. I neu apat kithu hilna tangpi a ijah khat ahileh “tup nanei leh tum tinten inlen, sildang khat poupou ah kiha buol sin” chi dandeu lam ngentang ahi hi. Ahileh tam atung a thu kigiel khu adihlou ata diei leh ?
Mihing hinkhuo a sil lamdang mama khat ahileh sil ineilou khat lunggulna leh nei utna ahi hi. Mangkangte thugen khat “The grass is always greener on the other side” ana chi uhi. Sil ineilou khat, siemna, pilna, hausatna, lamkai hina leh adangdang mi ading hituomlou in ei ading zong hithei ahi chi in iki hanthawn uhi. Tuni tan in tambang in iki thuhil lai ua, hinanleh tambang hanthawnna zieh a lawching aki um tadiei ? Tam thu neukhat sau gen deu talei, mihausate zong nuomsalou maithei, lamkai lienpen ahilou leh officer or politician bawlthei pen zong lawching mama kisalou maithei nalai hi.
Miphah dingdan lampi geel in asun-azan in buoi nanlei bangma tan tunglou atamzaw aki hi veve hi. Ahileh bangchi dan a lawchinglou ita ding uoi chi tu kumtha 2013 a panlah nading in kikum vai chi ihi uhi.
“Ki hichi leh, ki khachi leh” chi a lunggeel ineina khu hun paisa ahilou leh hun hing tung ding hisapna maimai ahi hi. Tam bang lunggel pen ei ham in DUTHUSAM akichi hi. Duthusam a hing koima a umsih a, duthusam gen a neh mu zong aki umnai sih hi. Tambang a duthusam iha gen laisie a tahtah toh kigamla deudeu ihi uhi. Bangzieh in? A umlou khat geel a buoi ihizieh un maban ah bangma a umsih hi.
“Lai kisiem henlen, tamteng kibawl leh, ki hausa henlen, car hoitah kilei leh” ahilou leh “maban ah na hasep in kisem henlen, neeh-le-taah ah kibuoi sih poupou leh” chi in lunggel inei ua, asep dingdan zong ithei ua, hinanleh a tangtung mu ding a um kholsih hi. “Kumtha hing tung phot leh adandan hing um naven” chimawh, bangzieh a “a dandan” hing um moh ding ata diei leh? Duthusam leh tambang a sil hisap lam ah kei zong midangte sang in siemmawzaw ding in ka gingta sih hi. Kei duthusam ahileh “Absolom bang in ki melhoi henlen, Samson bang in ki hat henlen, Solomon bang in kipil henlen, Mathusel bang in kidam sawt leh. Pasian in leitung a mi tengteng VAIHAWMNA HUN anei chieng in Chief-Guest in kipang leh” chi ahi tazen hi. Tam ka duthusam a tangtung diei le?
Mihing a tamzawte lunggeelna khu sepsuo theilou ahi tangpi a, duthusam in a beimang hi. Hinanleh tambang duthusam ineite khenkhat ading in tup-le-ngiim a suoh a, alawsap chieng un lungkie leh kingaisie in hin nasan ut nonlou pou in a um uhi. Tambangte bangdang zieh ahisih a, duthusam inei lezong tu-le-tu hun a bang teng inei (presently available resources) ei chi etkai angai masa hi. A tamzawte’n lawchin ding dan maimai mu in, tu-le-tu a adinmun athei sih uhi.
Khenkhat in theisiemna nei in “Lekha chuh kisiemthei thou hi a, lekhabu leina ding aki neisih a, school/college hoi ah aki kaijou sih a etc.” chi in neilou dan agen uhi. Tambangte alawchinlou zieh uh ahileh midangte nei a eng zieh maimai uh ahi hi. A poimaw pen SIL THEITHEINA anei ua, hinanleh aneisa uh jahthei (utilizing the available resources) ahilam theilou in, a umlou khat DUTHUSAM a nei in, aneite uzong atopna ah jahtheilou asuo uhi.
Etsahna khat genvai: India khopi tuomtuom a school/ college kaite a siemdeu ding in igel ua, lawching deu ding in ikoi uhi. Lamka a ikai zieh a lawching thei ding a kikoilou in, lekha nasan isim ut sih uhi. Lawching ut tahtah kihileh lekha bu zong buoi nading bangma a umsih a, simding atam khopmai ding hi. Tualeh internet communication ahoi mama tah zieh in resource tahsap nading a umsih ding hi. Hinanleh ei thasiet lam kitheilou in “khum college, khum mun ah kikai leh” chi in, ahilou khat geel in eima leh eima bangmalou ikisuo hi. Lawchin ut tahtah ihileh lawchin ding dan duthusam a neilou a, lawchin nading a sepding leh bawlding kilawmte kipat a, lungkelou a pan angai hi. Hisap tan tung changchang, sepding donlou chipen lawsapna bulpi ahi hi.
Sapte’n lungpilna (insight) chi thum in ana khen uhi. Khatna ah IMPAIRED INSIGHT ahi hi. Tam in a gen ut ahileh sie-le-pha khentheilou, sil khat poupou ngaituo theilou china ahi. Tambang lungsim neite’n mi a ding genlou ama ading nasan khuollou in, a ut-le-da in a um ua, bangteng gen lechin zong bangma aphatuom sih ding hi.
A ni na ah INTELLECTUAL INSIGHT chikhat anei kia uhi. Tam in agen ut ahileh “sil or buoina leh azieh theichien mama, hinanleh a pilna- siemna zang (apply) tahtah theilou china ahi hi. Tambang mi eilah ah kitam mama ding in ka gingta hi. Eipawl in THEORY chauh a siem ichite ahi uhi. Igam a buoina lienpen khat zong siemna leh pilna nei tam mama, hilezong zahthei a um khollou zieh ahi hi.
A thumna ding in TRUE INSIGHT kichi khat a umkia hi. True insight ichi chieng in THEISIEM maimai hilou in, THEICHIEN chiding ahizaw hi. Tam lunggelna in buoina ahilou leh silkhat ahing pienkhiet dan, ahoilouna leh bawl dih dingdan athei a, atheina leh akim-apam a sil jahthei teng zang in pan ala hi. Tambang mite’n aneilou uleh maban ding buoipilou in, silkhat poupou abawl hun ma in abawl ua, asem uhi.
Ahitah leh tukum 2013 ah bangchi dan in pan ila ta di uai leh ?
Tukum in sil khenkhat duthusam maimai a um, a tahtah a umtheilou ahi chi theichiet masa pen vai. Tupna nei leh a tangtun sah dingdan hisap thaw maimailou in, ikim-ipam a jah theithei zang in, mat theithei man in, pan latha vai. Ineilou tung leh a tangtunglou ding khat a lungsim seeng zen a gimlou in, ei hithei na dandan toh kipan doh vai chi in simtu deitahte kahing chiel hi. Bangma jousie duthusam ahilou leh hisap thaw lam iha bawl chieng in namanlou khat in hunlui geeldohna, tahsap zieh a maban maingaplouna ahing pethei giep hi.
Lawchin nading a IDEA hoi pipi ineite A TAHTAH hinailou ahi chi theivai. Tam idea hoitah ineite atahsuo theina ding in bangma dang a poimaw sih a, eima kimuonngamna a poimaw hi. Lung geel hoitah nei henlen, pawdohlou leh semdohlou in um lehang a phatuom sih ding chi itheichiet uh ka gingta mama hi. Tukum 2013 ahi toh kituoh in KIPAN DOH VAI, GEEL GEEL DA VAI kachi ut hi. Simtute tengteng Mangpa’n theisiem ding leh zuithei ding in hing umpi ta hen.
~~31122012~~